Thursday, March 2, 2023

CONNECTIONS


 Connections happen when people feel seen and heard and valued.

It was a beautiful sunny day and I was anxious to get our walking.  A friend who means well actually came and took Spenser's lesh out of my hand saying she would walk him and I should go back in the house and keep warm.

I felt very annoyed so I walked over to the store and bought myself some cookies.

None of us like to be told what we have to do.

The problem right now in our family is we need to make up our minds.  When should we sell?  Should we rent or buy?  Do we agree a line of credit is good?  Do we have a mortgage on our house?

It is so easy to be misunderstod and that can be extremely frustrating.

We think maybe Rick misunderstood about Tavia.  She thinks we have over paid her.  We look forward to her coming when the weather gets warmer.  She is a great little worker.

We had a good time with Rick.  He came early to take the garbage out.  Then we put the right bird seed in the bird feeder.  The birds are all so hungry and we love watching them.

After going to the store he made us a super good delicious lunch.  Hot roast beef sandwiches!

We need to value the opinions of others while we make our own decions. 

I made an important decsion and I walked Spenser over at Boundary Park.

             also we are getting our fireplace fixed.

2 comments:

Sandra said...

Do you feel like you have been heard mom? In the big scheme of things having someone one delay your walking by a few hours out of concern for you was not the terrible. It is good the sun stayed out and you were able to head over to the park for a walk later on.
Tavia has done a fantastic job in the garden, she has tamed the jungle and saved you from many a tumble by all her hard work.
Sandra

Steady-as-rain said...

Hmmmm - I see.