CHANGES

This was a great invention  at one time but things certainly have changed.

Some things bring back special memories that will never change what you felt at the time.

The weather has changed very quickly and is very cold.  This is the month where snow is expected in some areas.

I had a good sleep and a brisk walk to help me keep warm.

Dad did not ride his bike in the forest because of the chilly air so there will be no new movies.  Dad has improved a lot in the last few months even though he has had a hormone shot.

We go to the cancer doctor to-morrow and things have improved according to the blood test.

I decided to go visiting and dad volunteered to drive so I am always thankful for that.

On the way I was thinking how nervous I was when I first started visiting many years ago.  I am always aware that the person I am spending time with has an unique story to tell.  I often start with a few simple questions and really make an effort to listen.  Often they are where they are because of some tragic change in their health or there circumstances.  I know how that can feel.

I sometimes feel lost for words when I see the sadness in their eyes as they tell me their story.

I hope to keep visiting for another year unless something changes in my life.

Some changes are for the better.

When I left my friend Joan she tells me again how thankful she is formy visit because she feels so very lonely.  Getting older brings many challenges.  We are growing old together even as we laugh and share a joke or two.